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Dating a female bartender

2: Whenever you visit a bar together, no matter how stunning you look, their first glance will always be at the spirit selection.

If I wear a tight skirt to work, he'll express dissatisfaction. I would also talk to him and find out why he's feeling insecure and jealous all of a sudden.I live in a small town, so everybody knows this woman and thinks she’s sexy and drools over her, etc.I hadn’t spoken to her much, but on this night, while sitting at the bar with a friend, I decided to try something new.As much as you want to believe that love and understanding can overcome the lifestyle differences between an industry type (bartender, waitress, cook, etc) and a non-industry type (a nine-to-fiver), it simply can’t. You’re tired of not getting a date night on the weekends because they’re working. The Alternative Lifestyle “My mom kept asking me things like, ‘Well, what does he plan on doing with his life?He can’t bartend forever.’” – Danielle Lindgren, serial bartender dater, and one of my ex girlfriends. At last count there were at least eight weddings, three divorces, two children born out of wedlock, five children born in wedlock and four very happy same-sex marriages as a direct result of advice from yours truly.

So when I saw e Harmony's article this week on reasons to date a bartender, I was, of course, delighted, but felt someone owed it to the world to balance out this sage advice from a website that results in 5 percent of all marriages in a country with the world's highest divorce rate. 15 Reasons NOT to date a bartender 1: You will not see them.

Anything girly — no sex-on-the-beach shots or apple martinis. Bartenders are usually confident and easy to talk to. Comment on the music if you like it because she might have something to do with what's playing at the bar.

What kind of drinks should I avoid ordering if I'm trying to impress a bartender? Kindly tell him you aren't interested in him romantically. My friend is cheating on his girlfriend, who's also my good friend. I also see a lot of people make fools of themselves, which makes me super thankful for the boyfriend I have.

Picking up female bartenders is actually quite easy because most guys do it wrong. These hot, single women “meet” 100’s of guys over the bar each weekend…and they still can’t get a date! From my experience working in the hospitality industry for 6 years, I found that it was often due to these two factors: This provides you with a BIG opportunity to find a cool girlfriend, or at least enjoy a quick, sexual relationship.

When you’re the rare guy who talks to her in the way that gets her out of customer service mode and into personal and flirting mode with you, all you need to do then is get her number. So, how can you stand out from the crowd and get the attention and interest of these hot (and often single) women?

How can you tell if a female bartender likes you for real and is not just being friendly?