Dating across cultures
In China, first impressions count and “it’s not uncommon for parents and grandparents to set their children up on blind dates with suitable matches they’ve found.” In Mexico, “you are not only dating the man/woman, but you are dating the family…” In Armenian culture, it’s important both sets of parents get along before the relationship gets serious. Yes, you do ask the father And not just for his blessing in marriage.Even in cultures where family opinion may not take precedent, friend compatibility is important. In Mexico, “one common expectation is getting the father’s approval [for dating] since he is the head of the household.” Some naysayers will say this is because societies are patriarchal, but in reality, most cultures are simply family oriented.
Whether they were Irish, Italian or Greek, they’ve always been of a different ethnicity or culture than my own.In this 60-minute session led by trainer and coach Jamie Gelbtuch, we will realistically assess the complexity that cultural differences may bring to a relationship, look at several types of intercultural partners, and co-design strategies for effectively managing challenges specific to dating across cultures.Come prepared to share personal experiences and gain clarity about some of the myths (positive and negative) surrounding intercultural dating. Of course this is a bit extreme and would probably only happen so rarely as to not even enter into statistics, but it could very well happen.In this case it would be necessary to either choose to ignore ones faith or to find a way to work around it.But, the real reason is because I love new cultures.
I love learning about people’s ways of life, how they were brought up and what values their ethnicities hold dearly.
One of my buddies thought he went on a date with a Russian girl, but in her mind, it wasn’t a date.
According to her, in Russia it’s not a real date unless the guy picks a girl up, pays for dinner, and gets her home at a time that is comfortable for her.
Yet, living abroad, even in such an expat-friendly environment as Amsterdam, can prove stressful.
Dating and relationships are one particular area of your life that often requires some major adjustment.
Family Matters In the US, our dating custom is to bring a girl home to meet the parents and friends only when the relationship becomes serious.