Dating chinese women for western men
I reached out to half a dozen Chinese women, all with Western boyfriends and husbands, to find out more on their feelings towards their relationships as well as the challenges that come with it.
We are experts at Asian Dating and cross-cultural relationship. I like cooking, learning, reading, travel, out-door activities, movies and music. Lots of true stories have been used to demonstrate the author’s views and suggestions in the book. Chinese women are the ideal choice for a mate for foreign men because they offer all the qualities that such men desire in a life partner, and more… Making a lifelong commitment is no small deal – it’s probably the most important decision you’ll make in your life.That kind of quality, one of my interviewees said, is typical of Chinese men who care a lot about having a stable job, a home and being able to afford luxury brands.She also said, of the Western men that she's dated, that they have a wider view of life.There is an actual shortage of single women in China, because so many Chinese families opt to only have boys under China's "One Child-One Family" policy.
Over the last thirty years the birthrate for boys has far exceeded the birthrate of girls and so Chinese girls are really in demand by lonely Chinese guys.
Of course, some of it has its roots in the usual stereotypes — stereotypes in the Western World.
According to Sheridan Prasso’s book, The Asian Mystique: Dragon Ladies, Geisha Girls, & Our Fantasies of the Exotic Orient, Asian men in general have long been losers in the world of mainstream American media: If there are some admirable aspects of the portrayals of Asian women in Hollywood and on TV, it’s hard to say the same of the portrayals of Asian men.
There are hardly enough books depicting foreign women with Chinese boyfriends or husbands. When you have a Chinese husband or boyfriend, sometimes you feel as if you belong to a lonely club. One of my dearest e-mail friends, a woman from Germany, once found me on the net because she had a — then — Chinese boyfriend and yearned to find someone to share her experience with.
Off the top of my head, I can think of Rachel De Woskin’s Foreign Babes in Beijing: Behind the Scenes of a New China and Repeat After Me: A Novel, Nicole Mones’ Lost in Translation, and Pearl S. So I began to wonder — why are there so few Chinese guys and foreign girls becoming couples?
A good deal of more mature women, even previously married ones, are dating foreign men because, with them, they have another chance at love.