Dating different people
Despite knowing I should play the field more, I haven't been able to bring myself to do it. I could tell I liked her because I got into a good mood whenever she texted/talked to me.While I was hanging out with Pam, I went to a party and met a friend of a friend named Nicole.
To make matters worse, they were complete opposites: Pam was younger, just starting off in the work force, and Nicole was a bit older and she was a lawyer.When I was looking for love, I often dated up to three guys simultaneously.I wasn't trying to hit some number in the Guinness Book of World Records.Dating as an institution is a relatively recent phenomenon which has mainly emerged in the last few centuries.From the standpoint of anthropology and sociology, dating is linked with other institutions such as marriage and the family which have also been changing rapidly and which have been subject to many forces, including advances in technology and medicine.Dating is a stage of romantic or sexual relationships in humans whereby two or more people meet socially, possibly as friends or with the aim of each assessing the other's suitability as a prospective partner in a more committed intimate relationship or marriage.
It can be a form of courtship that consists of social activities done by the couple.
Since there was no way to know who would stick around, I dated as many guys as I was interested in at the same time.
That's why I'm an advocate for "volume dating."I dated 30 men in 15 months in order to eventually meet my husband.
The biggest element of my quandary is deciding whether I should tell both girls about the fact that I want to see other people.
If I do, it might work out better, but I could lose them both if they don't like the arrangement or if they find out if I tried to keep it from them.
It turns out, the secret to finding love and commitment is not committing too soon.