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Dating the same guy twice

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You won't make the same mistakes you made when you chose your last d-bag boyfriend.What exactly are those mistakes you won't make again?

Even though this guy and I were 25 years apart, we had a lot in common. I didn't know then that our age gap would define the relationship.On any college campus, it’s a classic situation to casually hook up with a guy you may, or may not, know very well.What happens, though, when he becomes your go-to hookup?The last I heard, my older ex was in a tumultuous relationship with another 20-something, this time a singer reminiscent of Björk. After about a year or so, the both of us became fairly close and although she never explicitly said anything, I'm fairly positive the feelings were mutual.Sure, we're not devoid of scars after facing a relationship with a bonafide d*ckwad, but the scars we collect shape us in positive ways. By tearing yourself away from something toxic, your resilience is multiplied — like building up a tolerance to a poison, you become incapable of being affected. The very fact you had the fortitude to pull yourself out from underneath the cloud of douchebaggery shows you have it in you to survive and persevere. Once you're free and have taken your time to enjoy being single, you'll be back on the prowl for your next boyfriend.

You can bet this time, your relationship will be different.

Another fifteen percent said they were currently in one.

Coleman says that the duration of a consistent hookup matters.

You’re not “together,” but no matter what other guys you talk to that night, you’ll always end up at his place.

If this lasts for a few weeks, a month, or longer – are you unofficially dating?

A few months later, I began developing feelings for another girl, and somewhat "got over" the girl mentioned above.