Dating tips for nice guys
The problem is that they may not be able to identify the ‘nice guys.’ Even if they can, there is baggage they cannot see but is ‘red flags’ for the ‘nice guys’.
Women are not turned on by how NICE you are, attraction doesn’t work like that.One of the hardest things I have to tell women who come to me for dating advice is that ‘it is you – not them.’ The world does not have a shortage of nice men, despite what you may believe.They are out there, and they are actively looking for a nice woman.Does he apologise when he uses curse words in front of you? Does he bring you flowers for no reason at all, gifts on occasion, and remembers your favourite drinks and dessert? Does he open doors for you and pull your chair back? In my experience I’ve come across several nice guys that have been used and abused by the women they were with, and this has shattered a lot of their morals and values turning them into tortured, wounded souls.Does he stand up whenever you leave or enter the room? Does he help you carry anything heavy/bulky, does he assist with putting your coat on, does he offer to fix anything that breaks down in your place of abode? Does he walk with you on the inside (with him closer to the street) when you are taking a walk through the neighbourhood? Majority of Nice Guys were raised around women, they were predominantly raised by their mothers, sisters and aunts, and have managed to understand to a certain extent how women think.They sense your moods, your oncoming PMS and have learned what to say in most situations.
They are generally also more in tune with their feminine/sensitive side and might stun you with the depth of perception that they possess. He will relate funny anecdotes about you and you might be surprised how much they know about you.
Most guys will make the mistake of being TOO NICE to women and wont get anywhere with them. Women keep their friends separate from their lovers and it’s almost IMPOSSIBLE to move from friend to lover.
Avoid the mistakes of the nice guy, and start having SUCCESS with women.
Perhaps out of sympathy (but more likely, self-preservation), your hand crept to your lap, shielding your own tender jewels from the ball-consuming fury spewing forth like a radioactive cloud.
All you could do was silently scream, “Run, you fool!
Sure, it would be great if it worked like this, but it doesn’t.