Korean dating mentality
A recent episode for Withhunt talked about the debate of the past 3 decades in Korea – who pays for dates? The knife is for self-defense, but not the kind of self-defense that you are thinking.
Contrary to what many clueless people say: dating or getting seriously involved with a Korean woman, isn’t easy at all.As I briefly scanned over in my previous post “What to Expect when Dating a Korean Guy,” it’s normal for Korean couples to get couple rings as early as 3 months into the relationship. Hug Day (December 14th) – people hug each other to keep warm in the Additional to their 22nd, 100, 200, 300, 400… Younger couples tend to celebrate more of these and the number decreases significantly as they age. No, not the disease you can pick up when travelling to certain countries.I'm talking about when Caucasian men develop an acute sexual preference for East Asian women – even becoming a fetish, for some. As Askakorean blog concisely states, Women in Korea were clearly divided into two camps along the dichotomy, and it is a one-way street if they do cross the divide. Instead, Korean couples use kakaotalk messenger to keep each other updated non-stop. There’s always variations from couple to couple, but the fact that this list exists may come as a surprise.
While couples in North America are much more “chill” and like to take things slow, my observation of Korean couples is that they love going all out and externally celebrating their togetherness.
You need to understand that dating a foreigner is still seen as taboo here.
On top of that, you’re going to have communication barriers beyond just language.
But it's subtle, and of course, few would admit to surfing online dating sites for Chinese women, yet when the only girls they date are Chinese, then the probabilities are in their favour.
Having said that, I'm surprised at what British men, both young and old, generally get away with when talking about East Asian women (Chinese, Japanese, Korean etc.) as well as South East Asian women (Vietnam, Thailand etc.) I've heard my Caucasian friends recommend to their male, single mates that they should date “nice Chinese girls”, with the added bonus that Chinese women are far more sexually open-minded than Caucasian girls.
It’s as if the Chinese are so foreign it doesn't count.