Prayer while dating
People say prayer brings married couples together, but what about unmarried ones? They have clever adages in support of the idea, such as, "The couple that prays together stays together," as well as a whole host of surveys, books, and websites singing the praises of how prayer can strengthen a relationship. For married couples of faith, the decision is a bit more obvious.
This has caused tension, which time apart between dates has helped ameliorate.I remember the weeks and months surrounding Valentine’s Day - particularly during my time as a single woman. I would have invited him to shift my heart and open my eyes to what he was doing.Walking through the stores, you notice that the string of lights and row of trees have been replaced by red hearts, chocolates and flowers. If I knew then what I know now, here’s what I would have prayed: 1. One way I would have prayed differently is asking God to help me trust him more.May we ride out the storms and rest in the fair weather.May we care for one another, so that we blossom and bloom as individuals.The second prayer is for those who have recently become engaged, which thanks God for His goodness in their lives. Your creativity bursts across the skies at sunset, it emerges from spring buds that bloom. Like three streams that merge into one single river, you are journeying with us.
Finally, there is a short prayer for those who have recently found love and romance. You are the creative, restoring current that runs through our relationship.
But what about couples who aren’t married, yet are in serious dating relationships?
Should they pray with their significant others, or is couple's prayer an intimate activity that is better suited for marriage?
Couples seem to be everywhere - holding hands, sharing flirtatious glances, and sneaking in passionate kisses. We talk a lot about trusting God in the Christian life, but do we do it?
The sting of being alone can seem even harder to handle when everywhere you look love is in the air - except the air breathing. I know I said I trusted him, but deep down I was afraid that maybe he couldn’t be trusted - that maybe he needed a little advice and direction about my life.
The mark of trust is believing that God’s plans are so much better than anything we could come up with on our own - and believing that he is good.