Sign of dating violence
Most relationships have difficult times, and almost every couple argues now and then.
His/her control over you limits your personal freedom.Dating abuse or dating violence is defined as the perpetration or threat of an act of violence by at least one member of an unmarried couple on the other member within the context of dating or courtship.It is also when one partner tries to maintain power and control over the other through abuse/violence.Abuse can occur regardless of the couple's age, race, income, or other demographic traits.There are, however, many traits that abusers and victims share in common.Dating violence crosses all racial, age, economic and social lines.
The Center for Relationship Abuse Awareness describes dating abuse as a "pattern of abusive and coercive behaviors used to maintain power and control over a former or current intimate partner." Individuals of all walks of life can find themselves in an abusive relationship.
Abusive behavior follows a pattern; it happens frequently and is meant to make you question your own thoughts and feelings. You may feel that you have to do things his/her way in order to keep the peace.
He/she may challenge your ideas or actions telling you that the way you do things is “wrong”.
Physical or sexual violence may occur without warning.
Sometimes, however, there may be signs or "red flags" that serve as warnings that the relationship is abusive.
There’s a fine line between expressing an opinion and requiring a person to act or do certain things.