True stories dating abuse
The first step in domestic violence is to charm the victim; the second is to isolate the victim. I began believing I deserved the abuse, and thought everybody else believed I was who he said I was.The hell became so familiar that it was easier to stay rather than leave.
They describe their experiences and insights so that others can recognize and prevent dating abuse in their own lives or in the lives of their friends. This Mother’s Day, Springtide Resources hopes you will send #LOVEnot LABOUR Traditionally on Mother’s Day, we shower those we love with flowers and gifts to honour and recognize the importance of their role in our lives.I knew that it existed in the world and I knew it was bad if it happened, but I had no idea it was called Domestic Violence, and I definitely had no idea how deeply dangerous, manipulative, gradual and lonely being abused was, until I met Phil. With the amazing upbringing I had experienced it was difficult for me to imagine living in a violent environment.I wanted to support him and be there for him in any way he needed me.I had a large close-knit group of girlfriends, I am close to my parents, brother, sister, aunts, uncles, and cousins.I was the girl who would say with pride that I would never let anyone, especially a boyfriend, hit me. He opened up to me immediately sharing the struggles with his family life growing up. He told me how his father was abusive to his mother and he hated him for it.It was easier to live with the shame and guilt in secrecy.
It was easier to stay and suffer in private than to try to leave and be humiliated in public.
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I grew up in a household where violence was never an issue.
We know that sharing your true stories of abuse helps you to heal and helps those living in abuse realize they’re not alone.
There are several ways to share your true stories of abuse depending on where your abusive relationship now stands and how you want to tell your story.
Adversity can make you weaker—but it can also make you stronger.